Being the Observer

July 14th, 2008

One of the signposts of a raise in consciousness is the shift in awareness from being identified with the stories of what’s happened to you; being the victim of others, circumstances, and events, to being the observer of life without taking the events of that life personally.

Eckhart Tolle speaks of this shift in his book A New Earth. He says, “Awakening is a shift in consciousness in which thinking and awareness separate.” He goes on to describe this as a process in which the new state of consciousness gradually flows into and transforms everything we do and becoming fully integrated into our lives.

This shift then moves the process of thought to being a servant of awareness. Tolle defines awareness as “conscious connection with universal intelligence”. Presence is another word that can be used to describe this state, “consciousness without thought”.

I remember about 5 years ago attending a workshop with a fellow who held himself out to be an expert in this area. He enjoyed taking people into a meditative state and during that experience would ask for a show of hands for how many participants reached a state of no thought. He would then say that those who dared show their hands were mistaken because we could not experience a state without thought.

From his viewpoint and level of consciousness this was his truth. That’s true for all of us. Truth is largely governed by our level of consciousness and angle of view. In this example, when this happened I felt less than. I had given my power away to this guy and didn’t realize it. It was more important to me in that moment to be accepted and to agree to his reality. I was measuring my value and my consciousness by an external reference; his approval. Fortunately my reference point is now internal and is not affected by the response or reaction of others to me.

If you think about a particular experience or event in your past, you may see that what it looked like then and how it looks and feels now are a bit different. Sometimes the charge remains and any charge we have, whether it be a judgment about something or someone or a bad feeling from an experience we have had, that charge will forever interfere with our rising vibration and consciousness. Disabling the charge is essential to our personal development and growth.

For each of us raising our vibration and embracing the shift in consciousness from taking things personally to being the observer are both a journey and a choice. We can facilitate or speed up the process by identifying and using Consciousness Shifting™ to eliminate the obstacles to this and the charges from past insults or events, or we can enjoy the journey in slo mo (slow motion). Dr. Joe Vitale say the universe likes speed and so do those of us who have embraced our consciousness shifting process!

If you would like to embrace the fast track to becoming the observer, contact one of our Consciousness Shifting Coaches today. www.rockitcoaches.com

With love and gratitude,
Karen
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760.329.9173
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Recommended Videos

July 7th, 2008

I found this video on line and it provides some great information on the singularity.

It would be fun to be in conversation about it and how our Consciousness Shifting process can benefit others as this time approaches.

Check it out and let me know how you feel about this.

 

 

I found this video on Pomoworld. Check it out and check out Pomoworld too!

 

 

 


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Possibility or Opportunity Today

July 7th, 2008

I often reflect on the turning points, learning and understandings that have impacted my life in profound ways. I will always be grateful for an insight I gleaned from Thomas Leonard years ago while attending a Coachville conference.

The insight that I took away from that conference is the distinction between possibilities and opportunities. This distinction is important because every day we are bombarded with choices, and options. This distinction profoundly changed forever the way I evaluated the options before me.

Possibility in this context is another word for “coulds”. “Coulds” are the things we have the choice to act on. We can also define “coulds” as ideas. We often have lots of “coulds” and feel that we must do something with them or about them. Thomas Leonard made several observations about “coulds” in his e-class series entitled Absence Of You:

  • “The word ‘could’ is the past tense of can.”
  • “A ‘could’ is something you can do but don’t have to do.”
  • “’Coulds’ are a series of things you could do.”

At that time, my “could list” was getting longer every day. I was living in do-do land and the illusion of what could be. I was dabbling in too many things, and did not seem to have the time for what was important to me. I was lacking focus and attention for those things that were most important to me and I was being distracted by the stories of possibilities. The cost of living in the illusion of possibility was very high.

Opportunity on the other hand is something you are drawn to naturally. There’s passion and purpose and it’s less effort to embrace. When you are embracing true opportunities there is an ease and flow that is a natural evolution to this process.

I began living and choosing from a perspective of making the distinction between possibility and opportunity. Things fell off my to-do list and life became less complex and complicated.

Further refinements to the process came later, as I reordered my “to do” list in the following categories:

  • Do it (because it moves you closer to your desired end result)
  • Do it later maybe (this is the collection place for ideas you don’t want to forget and are not ready to dump. This list provides a way for you to remember so you do not have to commit brain power to this activity).
  • Delegate it (We all do some things well and other things not so well. Delegating is a great way to get things done that is not your strong suit and free time up for the things that are your strengths.)
  • Dump it (This is where all those coulds, possibilities and stories about should have go!)

Now I routinely ask myself the following two questions on a regular basis:

Is this a possibility or an opportunity? As Thomas had said in the Absence Of You program, “There’s a wide gap between potential "(possibility)"and reality and it takes time/energy/investment to convert potential into reality.” Opportunities in contrast are based in reality. Much of the time, energy and investment have already occurred. We have 3 sources of power in our lives, our time, our money and our energy or life force. If we use these power sources in pursuit of possibility instead of focusing them on opportunity, it’s like swimming against the current.

The second question I like to ask myself is the following one:

Is this choice moving me closer to or further away from my desired end result? Every choice we make moves us closer to or further from what we desire. What will you choose?

With love and gratitude,
Karen
You can have your cake . . . AND eat it too!
760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com
www.rockitcoaches.com

What is Congruence

June 30th, 2008

Congruence is defined as coinciding, agreeing or being in harmony. It is an essential element of the process of intention and co-creation. Often we can be 100% resonant with our intentions and still not experience the full manifestation of them.

There can be a variety of reasons for this. In order to fully manifest what we desire, we must live consciously from a place of non-attachment, non-judgment and non-resistance. We must also be congruent.

Is there a place in your life where you’re attached, judgmental or resistant?

Judging
The idea or thought that the timing must be in a certain time frame is one of being judgmental. When we have judged the timing we may decide that because it has not happened, it won’t. When we have time limits on our intentions we often give up on the intention before it manifests physically. Formulating intentions that are based on our goals and desires is a good practice. Being present to what is, requires that we not attach a timeline to when it manifests or give up on the intention because it did not happen in our time.

Being Attached
Having an attachment to what the manifested version of the intention is often another barrier to manifestation. When we have a position with regard to what this is going to look like, we limit our options and may not recognize the manifestation if it appears in another form.

Resistance
Have you been congruent in taking actions and holding beliefs that supported manifestation of your intention? If some of your actions and beliefs do not support fulfillment of the intention, you are not fully congruent. Ask yourself a question. “Which of my actions and beliefs did not support the fulfillment of this intention?” This question opens the door to amazing awareness. The shortest distance between two points is a straight line and often this question will reveal several places where you may be holding back. You may also notice some limiting beliefs that no doubt have created resistance along the way.

There are lots of folks out there with remedies for manifestation. You can buy hypnotic products that are touted to clear your barriers to manifestation and co-creation. The bottom line is that no matter how many tapes, programs, seminars, workshops, teleclasses, e-courses, coaching programs you participate in, without congruence your results will be marginal at best. Why settle for less than you desire and deserve?

Are you congruent . . . walking your talk . . . mind and body in total agreement . . . fully resonating with what you believe?

Our Consciousness Shifting process is very effective in identifying and shifting limiting beliefs, negativity and resistance. The process involves going to deeper levels than most techniques reach. We identify the circular logic patterns that are tied to the limited beliefs. The fear based patterns cannot be eliminated by subliminal programming or hypnosis. They cannot be stopped by tapping although your attention can be diverted away from the pain.

These are the patterns of immobility. Once identified, these patterns can be easily erased using the consciousness shifting process. It doesn’t take a lot of time, and it’s simple and elegant. Our goal in sharing this work is to support you in being the best you can be in the shortest period of time. The process can be applied to any aspect of life from relationships to abundance, from money to peace.

When you have a plan that includes inspired action and you are congruent with your intentions, you will easily move beyond the areas of resistance.

With love and gratitude,
Karen
You can have your cake . . . AND eat it too!
760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com
www.rockitcoaches.com

Abundance and Reserves

June 23rd, 2008

Often when we think of the term abundance, we think of money or wealth, but truly abundance relates to having enough. As a coach I want my clients to have reserves in all areas of their lives. Having enough to just get by is simply not good enough nor will it create the kind of extraordinary life that is possible when one moves out of scarcity.

Reserves apply to all areas of our life; material and non-material. Reserves of time allow spontaneity; reserves of money prevent fear and allow flexibility in regards to what one does with their time. A reserve of energy gives you enough personal power to take advantage of the situation you are in and to enjoy your life. Reserves of household items and food will carry you through an emergency or disaster. Reserves of emotional strength allow you to be there for someone and be truly present when it makes a difference.

Abundance is similar to reserves in many ways. If you are a person who has a to-do list that is so long you can never imagine seeing the end of it, you are certainly not in abundance with regard to time. If you are someone who is under a great deal of stress that is imposed by other demands on you, you will deplete your personal power and emotional strength as you meet the demands. If you are someone who never has time for themselves, you are not living an abundant life. If complaining about the situation you are in is part of your routine, you will not be in a place to notice everything you have to be grateful for nor will you feel particularly blessed with abundance.

Who do you know who always has time for what is important to her? Who do you know who has reserves in all areas of his life? How is a life with abundance and reserves created? How would it be for you to have reserves in every area?

Certain qualities are inherent in an abundant life. These include and are not limited to courage, gratitude, clarity, patience, openness, consistency, acknowledgment, enthusiasm, respect and having fun. We have been conditioned over our lifetime to have beliefs that limit the abundance in our lives. This programming becomes a hidden internal motivator and creates scarcity in the areas where we most crave reserves.

You can turn this around and create abundance where there has been scarcity; here are some things to consider:

  1. Be aware of what limiting beliefs or scarcity patterns you are living with. Awareness always precedes change and when you begin noticing what you are thinking, you can change your thoughts. Working with a life coach who knows how to consciousness shift will help you find and shift the negativity and limiting patterns.
  2. Tell yourself the truth of what is. You must be willing to look at your life or situation from this perspective. If you do not acknowledge where you are, it’s difficult to create new possibilities.
  3. Change your operating system from a do, have, be mode to a be, have, do mode. This is a very important distinction because in the first you are doing (your to do list), in order to have something, so you can be someone. When you leave "do do" land you create the space for being and inspired action.
  4. Identify your intended result; we call this starting with the end in mind. When you know what your intention is (where you want to be) and how you will measure it (know you have arrived), you will find that your results will manifest rather magically and effortlessly.
  5. Connect with your dream (vision) so that you can fuel it with your passion. Can you list 10 things that you would like to do, have, be or experience before leaving the planet? Many of us never consider what we truly want.
  6. Remember that you are bigger than your problem. Move, dance, breathe, take a walk, be in nature, play with your dog, do anything that will shift your energy from the heaviness you feel and allow the wisdom of your higher self to come to your assistance.
  7. Keep an abundance journal. This is also knows as a gratitude journal and it will make a huge difference in your life. Every day list the 10 things you are grateful for and then list another 5 things that you can acknowledge yourself for. Gratitude and acknowledgement are powerful tools in this process.

Our ability to create abundance and reserves in our lives is related to how well we are able to manifest our dreams. Are you living your dream?

“You never know what is enough until you know what is more than enough”
-William Blake

With love and gratitude,
Karen
You can have your cake . . . AND eat it too!
760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com
www.rockitcoaches.com

Mediocrity or Excellence; What Do You Choose?

June 16th, 2008

(Mediocrity- a quality that is adequate or acceptable but not very good; Excellence- superiority; the quality or state of being outstanding and superior)

I have been thinking a lot lately about the ways our society and culture drives us to accept mediocrity as the norm for our lives. Some of this is so subtle we may not be aware of it and some of it we may think we can do nothing about. I, for one, am tired of the messages that we are pummeled with on a daily basis and invite you to choose to be tired of them as well. To that end I have shared some of the messages and/or assumptions that I feel are the most toxic for you to consider. What if you could create or accept a different reality? What if the pictures that are being painted for you on a daily basis are simply an illusion? If you knew that, would you make different choices?

Aging
How wonderful and magnificent this thing we call our body is! I am grateful that all of my parts work! And I wonder why we think we must age and lose function? That arthritis, hair loss and slowed metabolism are normal? Could this occur because it is what is programmed as an expectation into the collective and it becomes our self-fulfilling prophecy? What if it could be different? There are 3 types of age. Two of the three can be reversed or stopped, (we do this in our resetting your Bio-Stat retreat). Just because you are chronologically 50 does not mean you need to be psychologically 50 or that the cells of your body must function as a 50 year old. The question for you is: will you agree with the media, the collective and the illusion of all the evidence around you, or will you choose to be young regardless of your chronological age? We have all met people who looked and felt great and appeared younger than their years and we have all met people who looked old before their time. Do you ever wonder what the difference is in these two different situations?

Dis-ease
I am so grateful for an awareness I have and a choice I have made that says, headaches, indigestion, insomnia and depression are not normal and do not have to be tolerated. I know that I don’t need drugs to deal with any of these “conditions” because I know that there is no disease in the mind of God (or if you like spirit or universe). Each of these is a symptom of something else that is going on. Our bodies have an innate intelligence that knows what is needed. Our problem is that many of us are no longer in touch with our bodies. Instead we allow the pharmaceutical industry to program us via television, radio and print advertising into an acceptance of “dis-ease” as a normal occurrence that can be remedied with toxic medications.

ED
Men are given the message that erectile dysfunction is normal and you can correct it with a pill. So if you are a guy with it, you are not alone and, if you don’t have it, you may think something is wrong with you because you are not having the same experience all the other guys are having. And what about those smiling, happy, women who are with the guy that got the pill. The message loud and clear says; erectile dysfunction + a pill = a happy woman. YIKES! This is insane! It’s nuts! And the beat goes on . . .

Anorexic and Airbrushed
How do you feel about the constant messages young girls and women are given via airbrushed, anorexic models on the cover of trendy magazines. Do you choose to accept these messages as true . . . this is the look to get no matter what, or do you feel less than because you don’t look like that? Will you recognize that this bit of “perfection” is created and is not real? It is an illusion – the question is; will you let that illusion determine how you are in your world?

Being connected
Our quality of life seems to be eroding by the minute as we become more and more wired and “wi-fied”. Why do we think we need this and that this is a good idea? What is the impact of this technology on our health and well being? Where is the research that says it is safe? We have a habit of thinking our government will take care of us and to that end would never expose us to something that is untested or unsafe. What if we are wrong about that assumption? What if these wireless devices such as cell phones, are not safe? What if you chose to research this as I and others have and found there is a problem? Would you then take action to protect yourself? Would you make another choice?

What happened to being? The connection we are looking for will not be found by being online with a bunch of other people who are on line. This is not connecting, although it’s a pretty good illusion. Do you really want to be connected with others? That happens by being in relationship with others. And to do that we have to be present. Will you put aside the distractions and habits that cause you to check out or avoid real connection in order to be connected?

Good Enough?
Many of us have been programmed to live in fear and that fear causes us to settle and have a life that is less than magical and fun. Mediocrity is not fun and if you tell yourself the truth you will agree.

Choosing Excellence
It’s time to get angry about what’s going on and to use that anger to move to a new place of being. The government is not going to take care of us, they can’t - there are far too many special interest groups in the way. No one can or will rescue you but you. If you resonate with even one bit of what I have shared here it may be time to shift your awareness and perspective and change the reality of your life. Your well being is at stake. Wake up and leave the herd!

What will you choose?

With love and gratitude,
Karen
You can have your cake . . . AND eat it too!
760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com
www.rockitcoaches.com

Second Chances

May 12th, 2008

I have been thinking lately about second chances. Second chances happen in many, many areas of our lives and they also happen in the lives of our loved ones. By second chances, I am referring to something that changes in us when we decide we will no longer tolerate the status quo. We have to be ready to leave the comfort and familiarity of what’s known or the idea of a second choice becomes an exercise in sameness.

Second chances can also happen when we turn that corner in life and our priorities change. We determine the most important thing is to be of service and to be happy. The external reference to gadgets and widgets and external signs of success and status now take on a secondary importance as we become internally referenced. There is an essence or a feeling that is now the underlying motivation and reason for being.

Some of the opportunities that we have in life for second chances have to do with love, career or perhaps reinventing ourselves and bringing forth our genius. We each have a gift that’s ours to share with world. Unfortunately, many of us never get past the hidden determinants of behavior that can hold us hostage and prevent us from bringing our gifts through our being.

Second chances can also happen in relationships or marriage. When we can truly be in the moment and free of worry about the one we are with, we have a second chance to experience love from a deep, connected and whole way of being. Recently, I realized that I was holding back in this area. After finding the limited beliefs I had taken on and using the powerful process of Consciousness Shifting to eliminate these hidden determinants of behavior, I found myself free to allow a fuller and more connected relationship with the man in my life. What specifically changed for me was the need for him to show up in a particular way. I was able to let go and be without any expectations or assumptions and that was yummy!

Second chances happen for animals as well. There’s an incredible population of adoptable dogs in shelters across the United States. I became aware of this when I began working with a new client a few months ago. This client had founded a nonprofit organization to spread the word and provide a variety of training and support information for adoptive parents and their canine companions. (Check out www.rescuemedog.org to learn more.)

These fantastic animals have arrived at shelters for a variety of reasons;

  • the death of person taking care of them
  • the divorce of their caretakers and loved ones
  • loss of a home due to foreclosure
  • perhaps they’ve been lost
  • or they’ve run away from a less than appealing home environment
  • or their owner didn’t choose consciously prior to taking a dog home and surrendered it to a shelter when they realized being a canine parent was not for them

The point is there are literally thousands of fantastic dogs, pure breed and mixed breeds, all sizes and temperaments available at your local shelters, and waiting for that second chance.

The assumptions we make, and the expectations we hold, color our perceptions in every area of life. They become hidden determinants of behavior. The pathway to second chances for us and for dogs in shelters is the same. A shift in our consciousness is required. A shift in the collective consciousness is required. When we challenge our assumptions, beliefs, perceptions, and expectations and choose to live in the moment, enjoying what is, we change the way we experience every aspect of life. We get a second chance!

Find a certified Consciousness Shifting coach here: http://www.rockitcoaching.com/about/

To learn more about the hidden determinants of behavior, check out my book; Rockit Your Life, Reaching the Next Dimension of Your Spiritual Journey www.rockityourlife.com

With love and gratitude,
Karen
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760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com
www.rockitcoaches.com

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Congruence

March 6th, 2008

Are you congruent?  Do your actions and beliefs support the manifestation of your intention?  One of my clients called to tell me she had been called to court for a lawsuit that began 5 years ago.  I asked her to have a session with me before going to court so that we could be sure she was congruent with her desired result which was dismissal of the case.

It was easy to see why this had gone on for five years.  When we tested for congruence we found some very old immobility patterns that were impeding flow and resolution of this situation.  We shifted these, and gave my client some processes to use to keep her energy and focus on her desired end result.  I am happy to report that less than 24 hours later, the court case had been dismissed.

When your actions, beliefs and the cellular memories of your body are not congruent, fulfillment of the intention is not supported.  It can’t be - it’s like a mixed message.

Finding incongruence is tricky and it can be done.  Start by asking yourself a question.  “Which of my actions and beliefs support the fulfillment of this intention and which do not?”  This question opens the door to amazing awareness.  The shortest distance between two points is a straight line and often this question will reveal several places where you may be holding back.  You may also notice some limiting beliefs that no doubt have created resistance along the way. 

Lots of folks out there claim remedies for manifestation.  You can buy hypnotic products that are touted to clear your barriers to manifestation and co-creation.  The bottom line is that no matter how many tapes, programs, seminars, workshops, teleclasses, e-courses, coaching programs you participate in, without congruence your results will be marginal at best.  Why settle for less than you desire and deserve?

Our Consciousness Shifting process is very effective in identifying and shifting limiting beliefs, negativity and resistance.  The process involves going to deeper levels than most techniques reach.  We identify the circular logic patterns that are tied to the limited beliefs and living in the cellular memory of the body.  These fear based patterns cannot be eliminated by subliminal programming or hypnosis.  They cannot be stopped by tapping, although your attention can be diverted away from the pain. 

Our newest teleclass is called Abundance and Reserves.  It’s all about congruence.  Get Congruence!  Join us on Tuesday March 11 at 11AM Pacific time.  Check it out here, you’ll be glad you did!

http://www.karenvizer.com/abundanceandreserves.html

With love and gratitude,
Karen
If it’s not yummy, don’t do it!
760.329.9173
www.karenvizer.com 
www.rockitcoaches.com

Consciousness Shifting and the “pain-body”

February 27th, 2008

I received an invitation a few weeks ago to attend a live web based event that Oprah is offering. Oprah, and Eckhart Tolle, on of my favorite authors, are teaching an online class about his book, A New Earth. I love this book and read it when it first came out in 2005. I learned so much from it and it literally changed my life and gave me new understanding about the consciousness shifting process that I had sourced and consider a sacred gift and why it works.

Eckhart TolleOf course I registered for the web event. Oprah’s Live Web Event is called Get ready to be awakened! I love that! Anyway the call begins on Monday March 3, 2008 and is 10 weeks long. I have included a link here in case you want to sign up and join the others who are participating.
Reserve your seat now
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Anyway what does all this have to do with my title, Consciousness Shifting and the “pain-body”? It’s simple really . . . consciousness shifting is a process that can quickly identify the patterns of the “pain-body” and disable them so the pain body is no longer driving your experience of life.

As Tolle explains in his book, A New Earth: Awakening to your Life’s Purpose, “Any negative emotion that is not fully faced and seen for what it is in the moment it arises does not completely dissolve. It leaves behind a remnant of pain.” He goes on to say; “The remnants of pain left behind by every strong negative emotion that is not fully faced, accepted, and then let go of join together to form an energy field that lives in the very cells of your body.”

In consciousness shifting language we say the negative emotions that have not been completely sensed (using the sensory capacity of the body), accepted and let go, cause reactive patterns and patterns of immobility. Fortunately, the gift of this process enables us to find these complex patterns and erase the cellular memory. We can even change past memories with this gift but that’s a story for another time.

We teach our clients how to fully use the sensory capacities of the body and how to use the body as a compass. Sometimes, we find a need to use the consciousness shifting process to clear the fear about accessing full sensory capacities of the body and that is easily shifted. When you know how to use your body as a compass to navigate the choices of your life, life becomes a whole lot more fun. And we like to have fun.

You know . . . if it’s not yummy, don’t do it!

With love and gratitude,
Karen

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